How can a man love another when he does not love himself?

How can a man show love and compassion to others when he does not show this to himself?

How can a person heal others unless they first heal themselves?

Right now I'm very perplexed about things. I am drained. I am torn. I am battered.

I am not where I wish to be, yet how do I console myself till the time I am there in that place?

- Yoda